Love Notes to The Boys

Two of my favorite bloggers....
Elise and Mara

Mara does love announcements
And Elise does dear boys.

usually my dear boys have been passive aggressive rants about boys in my life or in the lives of my friends that have been driving me BANANAS.

But...not really happy/sunny/positive.
All three things I'm trying to have more of in my life.

So lets combine the two and have....Love Notes to The Boys




dear volleyball friend

you always made me feel special and wanted. not many people were glad i was there.  not only were you...but you told me too. thanks for rising above the culture. 

love

spectator


dear supporter

i know it probably didn't mean much to you but it meant lots to me.  thank you for your kindness, your understanding and your support. 

love
girl trying to make a change

dear bell boy

you are always around and i so appreciate it.  you always know just when to text or call. 

totally out of the blue!  how do you do that?? here's hopin I can be half the friend you are
love
girl in need

dear hott latino

where do i even begin!!!????!!!!  you are the ultimate blessing in my life lately!!!
also ps...praying every day and night that i'm a good matchmaker ;)
love
dear dear friend

dear old bald guy

thanks for not trying to change my mind. i know you probably wanted to.  thanks for being a card carrying member of my fan club

love
won't be a stranger

dear king of the tie-dye people

thanks for creating a culture where we could be ourselves and flourish. also thanks for being a good friend full of great advice.

love
former tie-dye girl 

dear methadone
thanks for being around.  you bridged me well when i really needed it.
even though its time for me to step back....know i will always hope and pray that you get back to where i know you can be.  you are an incredible guy.  be incredible!
love
former addict

dear tie-dye boys

you will forever and always be the bench mark for what guys in my life should be like. thanks for memories that still bring a much needed smile.
love
lets be honest.. ALWAYS tie-dye girl

dear lomlabffe

i'm here. not going anywhere.  just let me know when you're ready. when you want to talk...cry...yell..or just sit in total silence.  i'm here for you.  you have always been there for me.  i hope you'll let me help you back.
love
me




tributes to
Mara and her Love Announcements  http://www.ablogaboutlove.com/
Elise and her Dear Boys  http://www.elisespiecesblog.com/

Mix-Tape Monday

Thanks to a certain friend of mine this song has been stuck in my head for DAYS.

But I guess I'm glad you're back from your California Adventure.....and I'll accept the chorus going around and around in my head.
xoxoxo

I picked this particular video cause well....its kinda sweet.
Interesting bonding technique dad.....says the gal with a degree in child development (occupational hazard)

Is it stuck in your head now?
Yeah I feel your pain.


Also this new song was VERY applicable today...........

I've got one less problem without-cha

ALSO....Dear people driving past me while I'm waiting in the turn lane.  

Yes I'm dancing to sassy pop music....Deal with it ;)

Dear Boys: A Letter to Sons/Nephews

(Since I am single and not sure at this point in my life if I will be Aunt Stephie or Mama)

Either way-here is what I want these boys to know....

Shout out to Nicole Shepherd of From the Mind of Nicole Shepherd who gave me the inspiration for this post

http://fromthemindofnicoleshepard.blogspot.com/2014/02/80-things-i-want-to-teach-my-sons.html

(LOVE LOVE LOVED everything she had to say)



And so...Dear Boys of My Future


1. Hang up your clothes the MINUTE they get out of the dryer.  Cause ironing is dumb and should be avoided.

2. Don't EVER leave the house a wrinkle-ly crinkle-ly mess.  (refer to number 1)

3. Brush yo teef...no one likes bad breath and gingivitis is no bueno

4. Don't always tell a girl she's beautiful..pretty is nice too.  Beautiful has unfortunately gotten kinda trite and cliche.

5. Never be afraid to apologize.  It is not a sign of weakness.  It is a sign of strength.

6. If you feel like its something you have to hide-maybe you should reconsider doing it

7. Know that no matter what it is-you can talk to me about it.  If you are scared I'll get mad...come to me anyway.  If you are scared I'll be sad...come to me anyway.  I want to help you and I can help you.

8. Have meaningful morning prayers.  They are easy to forget about and hard to have.  But they are very protective.

9. Hold open doors...for everyone.  Its just a nice thing to do and people appreciate it.

10. Smile at people as you pass them in the halls...the store..on the street

11. Be polite to those who serve you...cashiers, waiters etc.  Even go above and beyond the thank you.  Say hello...ask them how they are....and NEVER EVER EVER think it is ok to be rude to them just because they are a stranger.

12. Remember it is just as prideful to look up as it is to look down.  Look straight ahead and focus on doing your best.  Don't compare

13. If you ever even consider a tattoo...or an earring....or something else equally stupid...Just stop.  There is no one reason for this.  The list is endless.  So just trust me and DON'T

14. Its ok to disagree with people.  But NEVER be disrespectful when you do it.

15. Remember that you will make mistakes.  But also know that rebellion is different.  Don't make mistakes on purpose.  You've been taught...now do your best.

16. NO MATTER which it is...rebellion or a mistake...you can fix it.  You can make it better.

17. You are in control.....don't let someone else push you to do something you don't want to do.

18. Again YOU are in control.  You as a person...not you as a guy.  Basically let me spell it out....your desires and passions are not who is in charge.  YOU ARE

19. Avoid ALL "back-burning".  Never keep a girl on the side/ in the background just in case things don't work out with the one you have now.  And don't allow a girl to play you like that either.  It won't be easy necessarily-but walk away

20. Speaking of walking away....much like apologizing, sometimes that is the greatest sign of strength.

21. Don't be reckless!  Its not cool to be dumb and risk getting hurt.

22. Avoid pornography like it is the plague.  Because it IS!!!!  I know you hear this all the time.  But its because it is INSANELY important.  It hurts your mind and your spirit.  It effects EVERY aspect of your life.  Please please please I beg of you.  Avoid AVOID AVOID
(and please refer to 6,7,15, and 16)

23. If you EVER DARE honk/whistle/cat-call at a girl.  I WILL KILL YOU!!!!!!!
And if you are picking her up on a date...GET OUT OF THE CAR.  YOU HAVE LEGS.  USE THEM TO WALK TO HER DOOR.  DO. NOT. HONK.

24. Be as kind to yourself as you are to others.  Give both the benefit of the doubt...and then work hard to be better/help them be better

25. Allow yourself to feel.  Emotions are ok...happy sad angry.  Allow yourself to feel them all.

26. Make hometeaching about being a friend and not about checking it off a list

27. Don't allow yourself to get stuck in a rut.  Don't do the same thing over and over.  Try new things.  Find what you love.

28. Never avoid something because you think you will be bad at it.

30. I don't care what you do...just make me proud.  Do your best at whatever you choose and you will always win in my book.  Remember I love you....no matter what

With Love
From Me



Be Happy Be Healthy every one

Follow Your Arrow

Alright....gonna chat for a bit about dating (sort of).....and advice........and a song I like lots and lots

So I LOVE LOVE LOVE this song.....Follow Your Arrow: Kacey Musgraves
for one line and one line alone

ok two......

(Can you guess which 2??????)

https://soundcloud.com/julie-humphries-1/follow-your-arrow 


(ok so there are more reasons to love it)


The past several weeks I have been receiving a great deal of advice.
Some sought after, some not.  Some helpful, some....eh hmmm less helpful.


But the biggest thing I have learned from advice receiving????
...good luck deciphering it all.

Ms Her says go left.  Mr Him says go right.  Mrs She says go up.  Msrt He says go down.

Bobby says date Billy.  Susie says run as fast as you can AWAY from Billy.
And to top it all off Jimmy some how figured out a way to suggest you do both!

NOW WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO WITH ALL THAT??????????


Do what makes you happy they say

OH I AM TRYING!!!!


But really advice can be nice.  I generally appreciate it, and I generally have no problem giving it.
HOWEVER...

To receivers of advice...I give you a bit of advice (no the irony is not lost on me!)


Just follow your arrow.....
Wherever it points

Basically...trial and error.  Go for what you think will work great....

And if it doesn't...redirect and try something else.

So often we are completely unwilling to try things out.  

What if it fails, what if I look like a fool.

BUT what if it succeeds, what if you look like a hero.

So do what is hard.  Don't listen to anyone but yourself.

Ask her out.  Break up with him.  Find a new job.  Go back to school.

Follow your dream whatever it takes.

(The irony of this post coming the week of V-day is also not lost on me!)

So Be Happy....Be Healthy

(oh and in case you didn't guess...the lines are "Horrrrrrrrr-ible person" and "Kiss lots of boys")

Musical credits to Julie Humphries

Dear Boys

HEY GUYS!!!
Its Wednesday...and so dearest boys in my life....I have a few words.


dear my favorite hott latino
you are so kind!  like seriously you make everyone feel so important when they talk to you.
i am so grateful to have you as a friend.
love
a girl always looking to add to my group


dear best guy friend EVER
thank you for not letting me be lonely.
i love being able to have you always around....no matter what
with all my love
your best friend


dear picky pants
ok honey.....we are going to have to work on this.  its seriously an issue.
i'm gonna make this happen.  you're going to learn i'm
a) very good
b) truly just want to be you friend
love
matchmaker


dear grown up
i'm really proud of you.  its really impressive how you have risen above the mess of it all.
love
impressed


dear almost great
you are a good guy.  for real you are.
if you can just manage to rise above the mess you will be great.  you don't have to be mean to fit in.
love
hopeful

dear boys

Its been a while...shall we?????



dear good distraction
YEAH YEAH YEAH YEAH!!!
she needs this.  some excitement...something to look forward to.
also she needs someone to distract...her and someone else.
love
best friend

dear dear pighead
yes.  i did just call you that.
do you really think you can treat people like that and expect things to go your way for long.
you are burning bridges and losing friends and respect.
try winning them and influencing them a little better.
love
dale carnegie

dear disappointment
i expected more from you.
get it together!
be kind be reasonable and
STOP THINKING ABOUT ONLY YOURSELF!!!!
guess what there are other people around you and you are...in fact...supposed to be concerned about them.
love
a sister

dear boyfriend
you are nice.
i will keep you around
love
girlfriend

dear new boys
be careful not to get exclusive.  im glad you found each other but
its not what we need right now
love
a concerned oldie

dear antsy
take some deep breaths and stop being antsy.
seriously!  you are going to make it even worse!
love
advice giver


Be Happy Be Healthy everyone!!!!!!!!

dear boys...like the good ol days

Full of wit...a little bitterness....and lots of love!



dear trouble
its like a bad recording of an adele song...could've had it all
shame on me...cause i knew when you walked in
but it's all about christina perri at this point...don't come back for me
love
girl who got played like a 2 dollar banjo

dear lonely
did you really think it wouldn't hurt me at all?
you basically told me i wasn't worth the work and the effort
yeah that made me feel super duper grand!
NOT
love
broken

dear bug boys
you ditched us...why am i apologizing??
love
say what now?

dear bug boys
awww y'all are great. forgiven!
love
a girl who hates spiders

dear sneaky
seriously dude....i rarely trust guys who wear pants that are tighter than mine
love
you ain't getting none of this

dear black tie
oh you are a baby but sure i'll give you a tour of my little town
even though you are like 3.5 years younger than me...no worries!
love
cradle robber

dear eye candy
could you be more perfect???
here's hoping that you didn't see me drooling! YIKES!!!
love
a girl who reverts back to a giggly teenager the minute you walked in the room

dear hometeacher
thank you. that's all. thank you
love
a grateful girl

dear new kid
i missed you so much so glad you are back
you give really good hugs
and you are a really good listener and you are really kind
and you smell nice and you are so understanding
thanks love
steph

dear addition
I DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT YOU LEAVING!!!!
I DONT WANT IT TO HAPPEN
love
the queen of "de nile"

dear into me
aww you are so sweet...but lets just be friends forever
FRIENDS FOREVER
love
girl patting your back
(see this for clarification....minute 4:55)

dear sad one
i know it has been hard.  i know you need friends right now
and i...we are here for you...friends for sure
you won't escape now!
love
on it!

dear big man on campus
you are so overwhelmed and don't even know how to respond
so i won't hold it against you
i'm gonna give you a chance to change and get out of this time. i'll be here when it's all normal again
til then
friend

Don't forget to check on on Elise!!!!! http://www.elisespiecesblog.com

dear boys-love anouncements

Happy Wednesday everyone!!!

dear addition
well isn't that sweet.  so glad i've got you as a friend!
love
me

dear new kid on the block
well welcome welcome.
you give good hugs-so i guess we will keep you around.
love
me

dear rule boy
thanks for the compliment.
it surprisingly meant a lot.
love
me

dear bachelorette fan
ummmm love!
lets be friends!
love
me

dear lonely
yeah...

Actually this letter is more for me than for you!

dear me
way to finally figure out you deserve more.
its nice to realize that.  very happy about it
love
me

dear eye candy
you are nice too!!!!!
add that to your pretty face
friends????
love
me



dear branch boys
alright i'm bagging the whole thing
i'll just play the field and be the top banana in the shock department!
love
holly golightly

dear boys

Not taking a break...NO WAY!!!  Too much to say!!!

also a song for your reading/listening pleasure





dear lonely
i know you are and i'll be here for you the whole time
in any way that you need me to be...no strings attached
love
friend

dear bell boy
soooooo soooooo glad things are back to normal
thanks for being honest with me and not thinking less of me
i'm trying to follow your advice...though its very hard and i've slipped up once already
i'm still trying...promise!
love
your hot mess friend

dear new kid on the block
boy boy crazy boy...keep cool boy!
and then...dive on in!
love
someone who has walked in your shoes before

dear us and them
i'm not saying we should hold hands and sing kumbi-ya
but there is only a perception of hatred...not actual
lets all get over it and just be kind to one another
love
the (self-proclaimed) "queen" of the island of misfit toys

dear addition
i love having you around. you bring the perfect balance
love
#4 of the fab five

dear shark number two
awkward!  sorry but that is gonna be a no!!!
like a big huge no!!!!
i have a "you don't have to always say yes to a first date" policy
you are kind but SOOOOOO not for me
love
girl concerned about becoming shark bait

dear big man on campus
ummmmmm ok this is all a little concerning
keeping an extra close eye on it all
but promising to not overthink it
love
worry-wart

dear dancer
well isn't this interesting
you are too short....and she ain't interested
but hey go for it!  who knows
love
girl who will tell you where she will be...but won't give you her number

dear espanolo
oooo...room has been made for you to swoop in
how are your swooping skills? you really should swoop
i'll help ;)
love
matchmaker

dear mr mystery
ummmmm so yeah didn't expect to ever see you again
AWKWARD
love
whoopsies!

dear eye candy
you may be too young...but you are sure good to look at
so feel free to stick around ;)
love
heres lookin at you kid

dear rule guy
ummmm she's not interested
and you are too excited...settle down honey!!!
deep breaths..lets do it together....smell the flowers...blow out the candles
ya gotta chill man!
love
cautious friend

dear baby brother
you are going to be here soon!!!
SOOOOOOOOOO over the moon excited!
love
big sis



Our fearless dear boys leader ;)

dear boys-a melancholy one

Isn't melancholy such a perfect word?  Sometimes I feel like it describes my mood so much better than sad.  Cause its not really sad.
Its like sad with a hint of resigned and a dash of concern that things will never quite work out.

Somedays are melancholy days.  Luckily not all....but I never have been one to gloss over the negative.
Its a part of life.  Let deal with it and move on ya know?  No dwelling...but no glossing either!

And so with that introduction/explanation....I give you dear boys




dear bell boy
i'm not angry.  i just sad and disappointed.
i know this is what is supposed to happen.  and you did warn me.
but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.
love
left behind


dear tractor boy
i'm glad you were so sweet to her.
just wish i could get the same.
but i guess i will just have to be satisfied with the first
love
heart broken


dear big man on campus
i foresee not so good things happening soon.
now the question is...do i pull out now before the above happens for a THIRD time this year
or do i hold on for as long as i can?
love
torn


dear three piece suit
must you leave?  ya'll always leave!
its all good.  i'm excited for you..hopefully you will keep me in the loop with all your adventures.
cause heaven knows you will have way more than me!!!!
love
excited for you


dear rule guy and bubble popper
i'm sorry you were the brunt of their jokes.
it breaks my heart
please know-they are just insecure stupid...kids...who have no idea
love
trying to be lovely


dear felon
i'm fine just fine. happy for you i guess
it totally blows but...whateves. not much i can do about it right?
guess the whole "he'll realize what he is missing and come crawling back"
ain't gonna happen...as i predicted
love
3 years too old





Anyway everyone-enjoy your Wednesday.
Remember to always check out what is new in Elise-y land
And Be Happy Be Healthy!!!!!

dear-sy boy-sy ;)

This will be a quick one...cause I worked last night and I have to go back tonight.  So I has to goes to beds!!!


But first!



dear all that....aka big man on campus
first i am thinking you are going to become a regular...so we are changing your name
second...thank you for allowing me a vicarious love life
sincerely
best friend


dear tractor boy
i am a great friend.  you are missing out.  cause lets be real i'm likely the the only person willing to be your friend...and by friend i mean TRUE friend who actually cares about you.
but i'm done cause its just not worth it.
love
yeah...done


dear three piece suit
thanks.   i'm grateful for a little....excitement is a strong word but...interesting whatevers???
yeah that is what we shall call it.
love
me

Be Happy Be Healthy

dear boys..just can't get enough

dear 3 piece suit
um yum-za-doodles!!!!  you are totes adorbs
please continue to be fashion forward and look like you belong in an H&M catalog
cause it rocks!
love
fashion challanged


dear boys everywhere
I'M GOING ON A MAN CLEANSE.  AND YOU DO NOT MAKE THAT EASY BY PLAYING WITH BABIES AND CHECKING ON ME IN BAD WEATHER AND DRESSING NICE.
CUT IT OUT
sincerely
a girl attempting to cleanse


dear all that
you are great.
just treat 'er right k??
love
bestie


dear scorpio
that was really weird.  not sure why you called
i think i am glad you did.  not sure.
love
still a little stunned


dear tractor boy
i know i should get up the courage to have "the talk" with you
but seeing as it sadly won't change a darn thing....
i'm gonna skip it.
love
me



And that is all...because as I said above.... MAN CLEANSE ;)

Be Happy Be Healthy

dear boys...cause i'm obsessed with writing these things!

dear tractor boy
why are you being nice to me again????
you are making this very hard!!!!
love
city gal

dear bell boy
well that hurt.  i know you didn't mean for it to
but it did.
and ill forgive you.  but getting over the hurt might take some time
love
wounded girl

dear dumbo
oh no no no
everything you just said is INVALID
just learn to fly and fly away!
love
timothy q mouse

dear felon
yeah its official
you are a *not nice phrase that i won't say
and so i'm done
love
a band perry fan

dear tall and lanky
that thing on your lip...its gotta go
yucky
love
me

dear drunk guy who hit on me on the street
oh honey-you are so drunk...just go home sweetie
love
sally  (apparently i look like my name should be sally????)

dear unicorn
YUM!
that is all
also-you should fall in love with me
jk lol
love
swooning girl

be happy be healthy

Confessions on a Saturday Afternoon

I have discovered
THE
unicorn.


(see this post for a definition)

(also please be assured that this whole post is SUPPOSED to be funny haha)


There have been unicorns I have known in the past.
But this man is THE unicorn!


I wish I could put up a picture-but that might get a little awkward (yikes!)


But seriously this man is a creature not from this world.

Tall, dark, handsome....and when he smiles...oh goodness I'm a puddle on the ground.


He caused a very composed and feet firmly on the ground girl to gawk and practically drool.

And seriously when he sat down next to me-I had to hold onto the seat I was in for fear I would fall off.

And then he was talking to me....and I had to remind myself to breathe!

And then ladies and gents, he touched my knee as he was saying goodbye and I thought for sure I would need someone with ACLS training.
Cause my heart looked like THIS


(ps...its NOT supposed to look like that!)


Get the defibrillator people we've got a Code Blue Cardiac Arrest.


Truly this man is a mystical creature, that I am pretty sure is not real......like for REALS!!!


Anyway...Be Happy Be Healthy....and I will sit here trying to slow my palpating heart ;)

dear boys ....as always :)

dear rookie
don't flirt with me rook.  seriously.
your minor league flirting has no place in the big leagues.
now get back to work!
love
a big hitter

dear bowtie
wrong girl.  you were supposed to go for the other girl
but eh whatever-yeah lets hang :)  you could be a nice distraction
love


dear basketball player
thanks for picking me up when i was down.
not sure i totally believe you when you say i'm a catch
but if you say so.  it really is two bad we are playing 2 different sports
love
a baseball player


dear tractor boy
i really have no idea what you think you are doing
but i guess i just have to let you do it
bye
a city girl


dear tall and lanky
apparently we are supposed to go out.
yeah we'll see if that happens
i'm super whatever about it all
love
the matchmaker who is getting matched

dear espanolo
eh eh  this could work out
like for reals
love
matchmaker

dear american league
some say i'm out of your league.
some might be saying you're out of my league
either way--we are not in the same league
too bad :(
love
national league

be happy be healthy folks!!!!

and happy wednesday

dear boys

dear jon jay
you are single...eligible...rich...
and baseball pants.......what else do i need to say???
love
a major cards fan!


dear felon
i still just don't know what to make of you!!!!
love
bewildered


dear tractor boy
YOU are the one i like.  your 'alternative personality'...not so much
love
.....this is just getting ridiculous!!!!!!!!


dear bell boy
UH OH...this could get interesting.
love
uh...betta not


dear bell boy
ITS NOT INTERESTING!!!!!
ITS PERFECT!!!!!!
I COULD NOT BE HAPPIER!!!!!!!!!
seriously....i couldn't
love
crayon girl....aka....the girl who just made you her BESTEST FRIEND!!!


And that is all she wrote folks!


Be happy and be healthy.......

Dear One Specific Boy

So this is probably a terribly ill-advised post, but I am pretty sure this boy doesn't read my blog-nor does anyone who really knows him.  Except one person-and she knows who she is wink wink

So hopefully this doesn't end badly for me... AWKWARD!!!!


dear boy i can't decide if i am worried about

so whenever it is just you and me, you are yourself.  at least i think you are yourself.  i don't know you that well, but i'm pretty sure that is who you really are.
but every time a certain group of people come around-you totally change.  you become kinda withdrawn and a follower.  still cool, but just not the fun, open guy i know.  its not a bad version of you-i just feel like you aren't you.

but there is another possibility.  you are in a really rough place-and need a friend or something. leading to well, your odd and different behavior recently.

and so cue the worry.

i mean if you are just not yourself around everyone cause you are shy...or whatever..thats not grand, but lets be real-few of us are totally ourselves around certain people.  and yeah i don't love that if it is the case, because this "yourself" also doesn't really talk to me (epic bummer).  but whatever-its fine

but if you need someone to talk talk to, or a friend or something-i'm here.  and i think you know that.  but problem is you are "mister too cool for school"-the ULTIMATE guy's guy-not really the bear my feelings type of guy...and i am pretty sure even my powerful powers won't crack you.

and so i worry.
but i guess i will just have to get over it and tell my worrisome mind to shut up!

love
a girl who worries too much.
and who cares about you...if you would just let me


Check out Elise!!!
and Be Happy and Be Healthy!!!!

Just A Song or Two

Lets be real.  Songwriters have always said things better than me.  Always.
Even if they are un-hipster Pop Stars  ;)

Happy Wednesday Everyone!


dear tractor guy




YEP YEP...you said it Demi!
love
city girl


 dear felon

 


SING IT Taylor!
love a girl who should have probably known better


 dear bell boy

 


alright so this one doesn't really work. but it is funny...you've gotta give me that!
love
a girl excited for Saturday's fun

Dear Boys-A Kind One

So usually this is the time when I vent my frustrations with guys..both in my life and in the lives of my friends.


HOWEVER...today we are going to mix it up a bit....and be nice haha

But really.

dear guys...who are our friends

alright guys.  we girls are pretty hard on you sometimes.  we complain and whine and sometimes even straight up bash you.  BUT  we really do love you.

girl friends are great-super important...you need them to be your shopping buddies,  the ones who you can watch Nicholas Sparks movies with, the ones who are there for all your boy problems and tell you honestly if that dress makes you look fat or that lipstick makes you look like a hooker.

but every girl NEEDS one or two good guy friends.  guys can do things girls can't.
like give guy hugs.  seriously there is NOTHING better than a good guy hug.
and they give us guy perspective.  they tell us to stop freaking out and stop over-analyzing.
they give us chill drama-free fun (ok generally drama-free).

you make us feel special and cared about.
your compliments mean more than any ever given by our girl friends.
you "protect" us from scary things like the dark and creepy people
plus you can reach stuff on the top shelf and lift our heavy stuff!

and when we don't have you...we really miss it.
like REALLY miss it

so guys-thanks for being our friends.  please know that you are appreciated.
you are excellent.  and we like you A LOT!

love
the girls that are your friends




dear guy friends....of mine
why are you all not here!!!!????  I MISS YOU!!!!
please be prepared for skype/texts/calls.  
a needy girl is on the loose and she is coming for you!!! (please don't be concerned or frightened)
love
a girl who can't seem to find good guy friends in her town!!! 

(don't worry...I won't post a million and a half pics of you...i know it'll weird you out hahaha)


Anyways..Be Happy Be Healthy



Shout out and love to our host-ELISE!!!!!!!
(you really should check out her blog cause she rocks!)

Dear Boys-Cause I'm Sure You All Are Sooooo Interested!

Happy Wednesday all!

Hope you enjoy the social....lives....of me and my friends!

dear hot shot

dude...you aren't that cool.  i mean i could handle being friends....if you just keep your ego in check

love

girl who is willing to be your friend

dear brother?? (wait what??)

alright, you called me your sister the other night.  this is good news.  cause yeah...never gonna actually happen-and i'm frankly too nice to tell you to buzz off!  much better if you get it on your own

love

girl who really doesn't like you but can't bring herself to be mean to you

dear rt man

don't flirt with me rook.  i could squash you like a bug

love

so not happening!

dear bell boy

sorry things got a little rough there for you.  it is a bummer.  but lets get you all better k??

trust me-I'm good at this kinda thing.  

love

a girl willing to be in the friend zone while you recover

dear tractor guy

SHE LIKES YOU IDIOT!!!!!  do something already!!!!!

love

city girl

dear felon
used to think you were just confusing.  now i think i hear you loud and clear.
love
friend-zoned

and thats all she wrote folks!

Be Happy Be Healthy!