At least according to.....
Kimberly Dawn Neumann a New York City-based freelance writer whose work has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Maxim, and Marie Claire..... and therefore a complete expert in the field :)
Don’t just pull a disappearing act on her
YEAH! It may seem easier to you to just kinda ride off into the sunset never to be heard from again. But really.....women need closure. It hurts less to just say "Hey this just isn't going to work out" instead of saying you will call...and then never calling.
Consider the timing before breaking the bad news to her
Is there ever a good time??? I mean really! Yeah maybe its not super nice to tell her when she just got fired. But at the same time....I've been laid off before and it took me a little while to get over it. How long do you want to fake it for?? Is that very fair???
Don’t rely on technology to do the deed
Choose your breakup location wisely
Don’t freak out if she gets emotional afterward
Stay strong in your assertion that it’s time to end things
Don’t be cruel in the name of honesty
Don’t use that “It’s not you, it’s me” line on her
End things properly with her before you start seeing someone else
It’s OK to agree to keep in touch (on special occasions only)
Reassure her
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